When the Past Won't Stay in the Past
After overwhelming experiences, the brain sometimes stores memories "unprocessed" — with the original images, sensations, and beliefs still live. That's why a certain sound, anniversary, or offhand comment can suddenly bring back the panic or shame of something that happened years ago. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) was developed to help the brain finish processing those memories, so you can recall them without being overwhelmed by them.
How EMDR Works
EMDR follows a structured, eight-phase protocol. We begin with your history and goals, then build grounding and coping resources so you feel steady. Only then do we move into reprocessing: you hold a target memory briefly in mind while following bilateral stimulation — guided eye movements or gentle tapping. Most clients find the memory progressively loses its intensity, and the negative belief attached to it ("I'm not safe," "It was my fault," "I'm not enough") gives way to something truer and kinder.
I completed EMDR training through EMDRIA, the professional association that sets EMDR's training standards, and I often integrate EMDR with IFS parts work — using IFS to gain the trust of protective parts first, which can make EMDR gentler and more effective, especially for complex trauma.
What EMDR Can Help With
- PTSD and complex trauma
- Single-incident trauma — accidents, medical events, loss
- Anxiety and panic
- Phobias
- Grief
- Negative core beliefs (e.g., "I am not enough")
In Person or Online
EMDR sessions are 60 minutes, available in person at my Tysons Corner office or via secure telehealth with on-screen bilateral stimulation for clients anywhere in Virginia.
Fees
EMDR Sessions: 60 mins | $150Superbills provided for out-of-network reimbursement