What Is Internal Family Systems Therapy?
Have you ever said, "Part of me wants this, but another part of me holds back"? That everyday experience is the heart of Internal Family Systems (IFS). We all have parts — a perfectionist part, an anxious part, a part that procrastinates, a hurt inner child. IFS understands that every one of these parts developed to protect you, often long ago, and that there are no bad parts.
Beneath all of those parts is your core Self — the calm, confident, compassionate inner leader that IFS helps you reconnect with. As your Self comes forward, parts that have been stuck in extreme roles can finally relax, release the burdens they carry, and take on healthier roles in your life.
What an IFS Session Looks Like
Sessions are 50 minutes, in person at my Tysons Corner office or by secure video anywhere in Virginia. Rather than just talking about your problems, I'll gently guide you to turn your attention inward — noticing the parts that show up around a struggle, getting curious about what they're protecting you from, and building a relationship with them. There's no script and nothing to perform. You set the pace, and we go only where you feel ready to go.
What IFS Can Help With
- Anxiety, worry, and overthinking
- Trauma and PTSD, including childhood wounds
- Harsh inner criticism and perfectionism
- Grief and loss
- Chronic illness and medical trauma
- Life transitions — career, relationships, identity
- Depression and feeling stuck or numb
My Training & Approach
I completed IFS training through the Internal Family Systems Institute — the organization founded by IFS developer Dr. Richard Schwartz — and IFS is the primary model I practice. When it's helpful, I integrate EMDR to support reprocessing of traumatic memories. My background as a nurse practitioner also gives me particular insight when parts work touches on chronic illness or medical trauma.
For clients who want to go deeper or faster than weekly sessions allow, I also offer extended IFS Intensives.
Fees
Individual IFS Sessions: 50 mins | $140Sliding scale available · Superbills provided for out-of-network reimbursement